Letting Go!

Letting go of situations, beliefs, thoughts, feelings, or relationships is one of the most challenging and frightening thing that we experience in our human existence.

Letting go of whatever no longer serves us is confronted with resistance. We resist change. Change scares us; it makes us feel out of control and lost.

I ask myself, why we struggle so much with letting go, what frightens us?  What is it about change that we resist? Of course the answer is the unknown, although we know in our heart that letting go  would be the best solution to stop our suffering,  the unknown paralyzes us , we like certainty. Certainty makes us feel secure.  Even if we suffer at least we are certain of our circumstance.

So we rather suffer than challenge our self to grow and to explore new possibilities. How insane is that! REALLY!.... reflect on this. We choose to suffer and then we ask ourselves why happiness eludes us.

We do not need to resist our feelings; we merely need to surrender to what is. And allow the love inside you to carry you through. Our feelings are just that, feelings; they are neither good nor bad, they are just our human experience a way for us to process the energy inside us. So let us celebrate our feelings and stop resisting the miracle of life. Yes, change is life itself calling you to your destiny.

The next time your face with the fear of letting go, surrender to your feelings, and allow space for something new to come into your life. It is okay to be frightened and lost; it is not okay to judge yourself wrong. Give yourself what you would give to a friend…love, compassion, patience, and acceptance. Celebrate the opportunity you are presented with and trust that all is well; life is asking you to make space for something wonderful to come into your life.  

Happiness is a choice, a choice to let go of what no longer makes us happy, a choice to be kind to our self, a choice to trust life even when it feels out of control, a choice to walk toward self-love.   Choose inner-peace; instead of inner- conflict. Be conscious of your choice!

Beside nothing is permanent , everything changes, the only constant reality is love.  

As always the love starts with you! Choose Love!

Namasté

Cynthia orlando